A Survival Guide to Leaving Monogamy

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A Survival Guide to Leaving Monogamy

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Monogamy—the one and only option modern society is pushing on you when it comes to your romantic and sexual relationships, is here for you to be challenged! Written for the person curious about ethical non-monogamy AND to help you in your first step as an ethical non-monogamous person, this guide does not only go through the fundamentals of ethical non-monogamy. It also contains a set of template descriptions to use on dating apps, ideas for initial agreements to make with your partner(s)—including yourself, tips to deal with jealousy, and ready-to-use answers when someone has something to say about your relationship style.

Includes a promo code to join LVRSNFRNDS for free

Leaving monogamy
for ethical non-monogamy

2 myths that need to go
about ethical non-monogamy

5 ethical non-mono types
the usual suspects

8 ways to describe ENM
on your dating app profile

7 tips to transition
into ethical non-monogamy

6 agreement ideas
for happy non-monogamy

5 tips to deal with jealousy
because let's face it

3 answer templates
to use instead of "fuck off!"

If you don't want to leave
there's your monogamous option

What you should do now
that you've got the basics covered

from us to you


Hey, my name is Sophie Mona Pagès (she/they). I am the founder of LVRSNFRNDS, a community app where people share personal stuff and make friends. I'm also a relationship expert quoted in publications like Cosmopolitan and Bustle. If you need support and you think I could help you, you can book me here.

As a French-Moroccan born in Morocco, growing up in France, I started being curious about identity and relationships very early. I am a queer person of color with an invisible disability, a survivor, white, able and hetero passing. Who I am and how I pass provide me with a unique kind of privilege I strive to leverage every day.

I want to make the world a better place for people who feel different—like me and in other ways, and those who love them. This is where LVRSNFRNDS comes from and I hope that you'll love this ebook I made with the help of our community members. If you want to join us, inside, you'll find a promo code to unlock your first month free.

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Click "I want this!" to challenge monogamy by default and find relationship bliss.

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